If All Realities Exist in This Present Moment, Why Isn’t the Reality I Want Showing Up for Me? 

Have you ever wondered why, despite your best efforts, the reality you want just doesn’t show up?  While I don’t claim to have all the answers, I can share my perspective on this intriguing question.

Perspective One: Filtering Our Reality

We experience the world through our five senses, and our unconscious mind processes an astounding 12 to 15 million bits of information from these senses every second. However, our conscious mind can only handle around 7 plus or minus 2 bits of this information at any given moment. The critical filters that determine what makes it to our conscious awareness are our beliefs, values, and meta-programs.

When we hold onto limiting beliefs, our filters are set to recognise and highlight information that reinforces those beliefs. For instance, if you believe “I’m not good enough,” your mind will filter reality to show you evidence supporting that belief. Hypnotherapy and NLP help us identify and remove these limiting beliefs, enabling us to filter for a different set of information. If we replace our limiting belief “I’m not good enough” with “I am good enough,” we start noticing opportunities and experiences that align with our new, empowering belief. Essentially, we’re seeing the same reality, but from the perspective of our new belief, where more of what we want begins to appear.

Perspective Two: Frequency and Resonance

Every thought, feeling, word, and belief emits a specific energetic frequency. Limiting beliefs like “I’m unworthy” or “I’m a failure” vibrate at a lower frequency, while positive beliefs such as “I love my life” or “abundance flows easily to me” resonate at a higher frequency. When we hold onto low-frequency beliefs, we attract experiences that match those vibrations.

By eliminating these low-frequency beliefs (using hypnotherapy, NLP and energy healing), we raise our energetic frequency. When we vibrate at a higher frequency, we attract experiences that are in harmony with our new state. So, although all realities exist in this present moment, we can only experience the reality we are in resonance with.

Take the Next Step.

If you’re ready to shift your reality and attract more of life you want, it might be time to explore Hypnotherapy, NLP and Energy Healing.  Book an appointment with Marcus on Fridays at Kundalini House and start your journey to a new you.



Marcus Corah Hypnotherapist NLPMarcus Corah

Dip. Cognitive Hypnotherapy, NLP Master Practitioner and Reiki Practitioner

Marcus holds a Diploma in Cognitive Hypnotherapy and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) Master Practitioner from the Quest Institute in London, England, and is a certified NLP Trainer through Chris Howard Training. He has been working as a therapist for over 15 years, helping clients overcome personal challenges and achieve their full potential.

Marcus’s journey into cognitive hypnotherapy and NLP began during the global financial crisis when he worked as a redundancy coach for large advertising and media agencies. This role quickly evolved into helping senior executives break through the limiting beliefs that were holding them back from success.